How To Lap Dance - 5 Useful Pointers For Success

By Sean T Saunders


Lap dancing has long been popular in adult clubs that cater to men however many ladies don't know that they can give their partner this special treat right in the comforts of their own home. Learning how to give a lap dance is quite easyand can be done by reading articles on the subject or watching videos. In this article we will be covering how to dress, how to set the scene and how to give a lap dance in a way that will make any woman desirable and impress her man.

1. Practice Makes Perfect - To learn how to give a lap dance you need an armchair and it is good to have a partner with whom you can rehearse the moves. If the lap dance is planned as a surprise then in that case you will have to use just an empty armchair during the practice sessions. When a partner is used they need to sit in the armchair with their hands at their sides and be instructed not to touch the dancer so that she can perform the lap dance without interference or distractions.

2. Erotic Clothing - To get into the right mood and to make the dance performance successful, choosing the right outfits is very important. Woman need to consider what types of clothes or lingerie turn their man on and dress accordingly. The clothing need not be overly fancy however it does need to be something that your partner finds attractive and sensual.

3. Set the Scene - The location where the lap dance performance is intended to take place is crucial as it can create a sensual and erotic mood before the dancing even begins. Using scented candles or scarves of various colors draped over lamps and light fittings can help this mood as can the right kind of music. The music must be chosen to suit into the lap dance routine which you have planned to perform. If your partner has favorite romantic music think about using that. You also need to make sure that the dance performance is not interrupted as it would spoil the mood. Once you have the romantic setting and music prepared it is time for you to practice some of the erotic moves.

4. Sexy Moves - The person for whom you are giving the lap dance needs to be seated on the armchair keeping his hands by his side making sure that they are not obstructing the dancer's moves. As the music begins the lap dancer should move sensuously over to her partner keeping eye contact. She should put both hands on the back of the chair and one knee in between the partners legs. The performers back should be arched in order to present her breasts to the recipient and then her body should be moved sensuously in a slow figure eight. She should slowly rest her elbow on the arm rest while raising her leg onto the back of the chair and then slowly run her hands all the way up to the crotch. Then the dancer should slide her body downwards ensuring that her breasts, belly and hips contact her partners body.

5. Finish Up - After sliding down her partner the lap dancer should rise slowly while turning so that her partner can appreciate her buttocks and legs and run her hands down and then up her legs while arching her back. She should touch her crotch lightly with a single finger while looking over her shoulder at her partner with an erotic look. With her back still turned the dancer should move to her partner and place both hands over the chair's arm rests. Her body should be lowered until it is just over her partners groin and then her body should be moved in a sensuous, rhythmic circular motion and then a back and forth motion. That completes a lap dance routine and the dancer can decide if she will let her partner use his hands!




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